Does it matter if the illness is invisible or not? Why?
We chatted about invisible illness on Monday, September 9 at 11 AM PST/2 PM EST (USA). Christine of ButYouDontLookSick.com joined us!
Below you will find links to the specific questions and answers. You can still add your comment if you like or respond to the comments of others.
Welcome, everyone. Thank you for joining us. This is Lisa behind the scenes along with Christine Miserandino of the Spoon Theory. I will be posting a question and then you will comment and reply to others about it. We will be talking about the idea of “invisible illness” today. —>Read more here
Getting to know you…
If you would like to comment below, please tell us in a sentence or two what you would like us to know about you, like where you are from, your age, your illness, or… your favorite color, your favorite shoes, whatever! We want this to be fun! —>Read more here
While a chronic illness is more about the length of time an illness exists, “invisible illness” is more about how you relate to other people and they relate to you since you look healthy. How does using the term “invisible illness” validate how you feel about your illness? Christine, you have done this from the beginning with your outreach. Can you comment on this? —> Read more here
Have you ever explained to loved ones how you have an invisible illness or hidden disabilities? Did it help them understand the impact of your struggles at all–or not? I know Christine’s Spoon Theory has helped many people explain. —> Read more here
When you identify with having an invisible illness, does it help you feel more validated–or does it create more bitterness–an “us” versus “them” mentality? How can we prevent our disappointment in people making us resentful? —>Read more here
When you share invisible illness memes or images or sayings online among your healthy friends, do you think it makes a little bit of a difference? Do they gradually come to understand there is more to how you are feeling than just how you appear? —>Read more here
As part of the invisible illness community, do you feel having these “friendships” helps how well you cope with your disease? Does having a group of people who “look fine but feel awful” make you feel more understood or is it too generalized and you find more comfort from those with the same illness? —>Read more here
Thank you everyone for joining us today, especially our guest, Christine! You can return here anytime and comment some more or read others comments. You can also do a search in Facebook for #invisibleillnesschat all of our chats this week. —>Read more here
Christine has been having some computer problems but she will be here for the next hour. Do you have a question for her, the special woman who came up with The Spoon Theory? Feel free to post here below and she will answer you personally! (thanks, Christine!) —> Read more here
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